Hmmm... Then you might want to stop by one of the Passive Arts Parties. There are plenty of chairs to lounge in and soak up the atmosphere...
1st Saturday of the month - Los Angeles Power Exchange has appetizers sent around by house slaves. Mistresses Feral and Eden run that with Sir Stingray. Very casual and come as you are.
2nd and 4th Saturday - DV8 is hosted by Sir Nik. It is a younger, more fashionable crowd. Fetish wear is suggested.
3rd Saturday - club Discipline is hosted by Aryn who used to promote Sin-a-matic. There are burlesque stage shows and BDSM shows on the main stage.